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Will the baby be okay with unfamiliar people?
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Will the baby be okay with unfamiliar people?

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  • Expect your newborn to be comfortable with strangers during the first 6 months of life as they cannot distinguish between family and unfamiliar faces.
  • Watch for stranger anxiety to develop around 6 months of age, which is a completely normal developmental milestone.
  • Recognize that babies can identify familiar scents immediately, even when they cannot visually distinguish between people.
  • Prepare for stranger anxiety to continue until ages 2-3, meaning even grandparents may trigger crying if not seen regularly.
  • Enjoy the social phase during the first few months when your baby shows equal interest in all faces with tenderness.

Most babies are fine with unfamiliar people during the first 6 months of life. Stranger anxiety typically develops around 6 months of age and continues until ages 2-3, which is completely normal child development.

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Your baby will, more than likely, be fine when encountering strangers. Children start to fear strangers at around six months of age.

Children have a special sensitivity to faces and show great interest in them [1]. But in the first few months of life, their vision is still developing, and they are just learning to distinguish people from other objects around them.

By three months, babies can already recognize faces well. You’ve probably already noticed how your baby looks into your eyes! But they will also look at everybody with the same tenderness because it is difficult for them to distinguish between their own family and strangers by sight alone (scent is a different story, they can recognize it immediately!).

Fear of strangers usually develops around the six-month mark. From this age until 2-3 years of age, anxiety in the presence of unfamiliar people is a normal phenomenon [2]. The baby may even cry, for example, when held by their grandparents if they don’t see them every day.

But this is still a few months away, so, for now, enjoy your affectionate and friendly baby!


Frequently asked questions

Babies typically develop stranger anxiety around 6 months of age. Before this age, they cannot easily distinguish between familiar family members and strangers by sight alone.

Yes, it's completely normal for babies to cry when held by grandparents they don't see regularly. This stranger anxiety can last until ages 2-3 years old.

Newborns can recognize their parents by scent immediately. However, visual recognition of faces develops gradually, with babies able to recognize faces well by 3 months of age.

Young babies smile at everyone because they have difficulty distinguishing between family and strangers by sight. They show natural interest in all faces during their early months.

Babies can recognize faces well by 3 months of age. In the first few months, their vision is still developing as they learn to distinguish people from other objects.

Medical Disclaimer

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

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Reviewed by healthcare professionals · Updated September 3, 2024

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