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Crying baby: the true reasons
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Crying baby: the true reasons

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Key takeaways
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  • Recognize that babies cry for physical reasons like hunger, dirty diapers, temperature discomfort, or colic - they cannot fake cry or manipulate you.
  • Identify hunger cries by their gradual escalation from whimpers to louder crying, unlike sudden cries from other causes.
  • Address colic by holding baby upright, rubbing their abdomen clockwise, and consider eliminating dairy from breastfeeding mother's diet.
  • Soothe overstimulated babies through swaddling, gentle rocking, close holding, and playing calming music to recreate womb-like comfort.
  • Provide emotional comfort through physical closeness, as babies may cry simply from needing maternal warmth and security even when physical needs are met.

Babies cry to communicate basic needs like hunger, discomfort from wet diapers, temperature issues, colic, or overstimulation. They cannot fake cry and may also need emotional comfort through maternal closeness and warmth.

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Newborns cry. It's their only way of communicating. Babies cannot "fake cry," which means they are not trying to trick or manipulate you. Their brains and nerve centers are just not fully developed. That will occur as they grow older, later in their toddler years [1].

Then why is a baby screaming?

Until recently, baby lived in mama's belly, where they were warm and comfy and had all of his desires met automatically. Suddenly, the baby is in a completely new environment, where it is cold or hot, scared, lonely, something aches, hunger or tiredness overwhelms them. And yet they are unable to convey their needs [2].

The one thing the baby can still do is to scream, which is key to their survival [1].

Babies cannot express their exact concerns, but the most common ones include the following:

  • Physical discomfort

Dirty or wet diapers can irritate the skin [1]. Baby may be uncomfortable and unable to adjust to a more comfortable position [3]. Baby may be too hot or too cold. In this case, it is not difficult to soothe the baby; simply eliminate the source of displeasure. It might just take a moment to figure out the cause. 

  • Hunger

Food is a baby's basic need, so they will undoubtedly let you know when they are hungry. In this case, sobs are rarely sudden: first there are whimpers, then the crying becomes increasingly louder [1].

  • Intestinal colic

This is a common reason for extended sobbing. Babies with colic are often restless, grabbing at their chests, flinging their arms, and kicking their legs. Your pediatrician can help you figure out what's causing the digestive problem. Eliminating dairy from mama's diet often benefits baby. However, as a first aid, position the baby upright and rub the abdomen clockwise [1].

  • Overexcitation

Excessive body movement might cause irritation in newborns. They are used to being constrained in the womb, so the numerous novel positions can be uncomfortable at times. Swaddling can aid in this situation [1]. If your baby isn't calming down, hold them close and gently swing them from side to side, or touch their back. Relaxing music can be played in the background [3].

It turns out that baby is crying only because of the physical condition?

Overall, yes. But there is another cause, a psychological one. Babies can cry even when they are full, dry, and healthy. There is simply not enough motherly warmth and affection. It is normal and healthful for a baby to stay with his mother at all times, as evolution has dictated. If mom is not present, there is a danger, and the baby is concerned. Pay attention to him by picking him up, rocking him, or singing a song.

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Frequently asked questions

Newborn babies cry because it's their only way to communicate their needs. They've transitioned from the comfortable womb environment to a new world where they experience hunger, discomfort, temperature changes, and need help meeting their basic needs.

Look for patterns and physical cues. Hunger cries start as whimpers and gradually get louder, while colic often involves restlessness, leg kicking, and arm flinging. Check for wet diapers, temperature comfort, and signs of overstimulation.

First address physical needs like feeding, diaper changes, and temperature adjustment. Try soothing techniques like swaddling, gentle rocking, holding close, or playing soft music. Sometimes babies simply need maternal comfort and closeness.

No, newborn babies cannot fake cry. Their brains and nerve centers aren't developed enough for manipulation tactics. This behavior typically doesn't develop until the toddler years.

Hold your baby upright and gently rub their abdomen in clockwise motions. If breastfeeding, consider eliminating dairy from your diet. Consult your pediatrician for persistent colic issues and additional treatment options.

Medical Disclaimer

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

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Reviewed by healthcare professionals · Updated September 5, 2024

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  1. Green. Effects of Posture on Newborn Crying. Hung-Chu Lin, James A. Infancy, 2010.
  2. Soothing a crying baby. NHS.

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